Saturday, April 5, 2008

guess who's back on the block?

I'm Michelle and I'm a Leo. (You won't get this if you're not an authentic NKOTB fan.)


Hahaha. Can you believe it, after more than 14 years, NKOTB is coming out with an album again! It's official, they're having a reunion!


In my teenage years, I was an official NKOTB fan. When they had their first concert in Manila, I was there in Rizal Stadium, 3rd row!!! (Next to NKOTB, I loved Debbie Gibson, too!)


But you do have to admit, despite NKOTB's cheesy songs (now I say "cheesy", but back then it was the soundtrack of my life!), they started a new genre of boy bands and all.


They appeared recently on Today show and of course they looked older but some things never change--Donnie was still the spokesman of the group and Joey was still a hottie! Instead of screams from teenagers, you hear women in their late 20s and 30s screaming their hearts out (I kinda want to cringe when I hear the screams). Click here to watch their appearance.


Just like Donnie (my favorite), Joey, Jorday, Jon and Donnie, I had to experience the applause and the boo-boos of my life. I had to grow old too. And change. Meet other people. Get interested in other things. But despite all these, in the deep, deep part of my heart, I will always remain an NKOTB fan!



I guess the best thing that came out of this is that I will always have five girls that I've shared a bond with because of this NKOTB fan thingie. It's such a nice feeling to know that you have mutual memories with five different people who you don't see anymore (and probably never will). Hey Julie, Mariel, Trisha, Fritzie, Judy!


I LOVE YOU, DONNIE! MARRY ME! ahahaha. This was my shoutout back then.


Now, Joey is still a singer (check out his songs here, not bad eh.), married to real estate agent and has a kid. Jon has a real estate firm in Boston and is still single. Donnie, who turned into an actor, is married and has two kids now. Danny is divorced with four kids and is a sales exec in some firm. Jordan is a record producer and is married with two kids.


So who was your favorite New Kid?


Sometime late 1980s to early 1990s



The official reunion photo

Thursday, April 3, 2008

january...february...march...april na!

Lurker
For the past few months, I've been a lurker. I have so many things on my mind that I want to write about...just to get it all out of my system. But for unknown reasons, I can't bring my fingers to tap on those keys and put it all in writing. Instead, these fingers are used to click on different blogs, different profiles, and well, basically just lurk on other people's spaces reading their thoughts and experiences. So okay, I'm officially a lurker. It makes me feel that I'm not alone in this vast, vast universe. Ho-hum.


Privacy Perks
Sometime this week, I will convert all my Multiply blog entries exclusively for my network. And for the not-so-personal ones, I will continue to post them in
My Constipated Life blog. I have put on the privacy mode of my Friendster account, and if I can do that in Facebook, then I shall do that too. I've been having this weird feeling lately that I should keep a low profile. Been meeting a lot of different people lately and I don't want them to know that inside this brilliant mind of mine lies a neurotic persona. Bwahahaha.


You know you love me...
My dearest sisters sent over their Gossip Girl books. They kept telling me to buy those
books here but I didn't want to spend my hard-earned money on teeny-bopper novels. So they sent their dog-eared copies to me. Being the open-minded person that I am, I read the first four books and I was hooked. It was like eavesdropping. Nothing too deep or life-changing. Just plain...err, gossiping. So I have brought my interest to a higher level because I am currently glued to watching its TV series online. I was a bit disappointed though--it wasn't as entertaining as the book version. It's still a good watch after a hard day's work.



The power of blogging
So I guess by now you've heard of Brian Gorrell's site. Kaloka ang chika ng baklang to! Even if you don't know all the personalities involved, maaaliw ka. You may want to check out
Chikatime also for other chismax and pang-ookray (but don't take it seriously, mga bakla, it's just for entertainment. Don't take it as a fact.) Whether it's a blog about gossiping, or about your wedding preps, about one's travels, or heartaches or about the latest na pangaalipusta sa mga OFWs, one thing's for sure--blogs have a certain power that can even encompass that of the television's.


Wanted: Eye-Mo
The most used part of me: my eyes. If eyes can develop muscles everytime we use them, mine would be as buffed as Mark Nelson's bod. At work, I'm facing a computer allll the time. And since I've discovered sites where I can watch movies and series for free (faster uploading eto), I've been glued to this freaking Samsung LCD. Lori lent me those 16 movies-in-1 DVD that she bought in Manila, so once again I'm glued to the screen again. Even when I sit on my throne in the bathroom, I still read. My eyes are soooo tired. At night when I go to sleep, I see this black rectangular spot and I feel like I'm going blind.

Poker tayo? $2 lang ang buy-in hehehe.


Ayyyyayyyyayyyyy ang haba na ng aking essay. E kasi naman almost three months akong walang chika...kaya monologue mode na nman ako.

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

can't wait!

Woohoo! It's been almost a month since my last post. Been busy with exams, with work, and my favorite--doing nothing haha!


There are a lot of things I'm looking forward to this year. I'm looking forward to my exam results (hopefully, I'll pass haha)...my homecoming after two years...my bonuses (!)... a miracle from God (hmmm...)


But the one I am looking forward to NOW, as in right this very minute, is Chinky's visit to SG!!! Wooohooo!!!! After almost two years of not seeing each other, I'll finally, finally get to see my Vru, my BFF, my partner in crime-love-hate-and revenge. Haha.



As I write this, she's now on the plane, coming from Perth. They will go back to Manila to have a fresh start. Fresh start--how nice it sounds, right? I'm happy for her because I know it's in Manila that they will be happy, and not the "remotest city in the world" (as she would call Perth). In an hour's time, I will be on my way to the airport to pick up Chinky, Jerome and little Carlos.



Unfortunately, they will only be staying for a day because... I can't tell you the reason why. If I tell you, I'd have to kill you (ha, baduy!).


So anyway, I want to share some of my favorite pics with Chinky...


High School Grad (1995)...



Starting to attend friends' weddings (2000ish)



Getting drunk together... (hmm kelan ba to? basta wala pang digicam nun)



and after many years, many boys, many heartaches, many tears, many liters of cuervo, many puffs, many joys, many pounds (more for me, less for her), many haircuts, many tambays, many issues, etc etc...


we had our last photo (taken together with Mommy (Tessie):



This photo was taken in 2006, when I went home for my wedding preps. The picture she's holding is supposed to be the design of her gown (she's my matron of honor). Fortunately and unfortunately, on that day that she's supposed to go for her gown measurement, she learned that she had to pack her bags and go to Australia immediately. So long story cut short, she wasn't able to make it to my wedding.


I was her Maid of Honor on her wedding. As promised, she was also my MOH on my wedding day. But she wasn't able to make it. But she will always be my MOH--in more ways than one.


OKAY ENOUGH OF THIS, I'M OFF TO THE AIRPORT TO PICK HER UP! CIAO.

Saturday, February 16, 2008

tutuy and his F1 dream...finally!








"The 2008 FORMULA 1™ SingTel Singapore Grand Prix is slated to debut on 28 September 2008 on a street circuit of public roads around the Marina Bay area. Already billed by many as one of the most dramatic and atmospheric races on the calendar, the proposed 5.067km long street circuit offers multiple overtaking opportunities as well as fast and challenging turns.

The 2008 FORMULA 1™ SingTel Singapore Grand Prix will be first street race in Asia and is one of three races in the 2008 F1 calendar to run anticlockwise. Subject to final safety clearances, the race will be the first held at night in F1 history."



The tickets for the Singapore GP only became available to the public (read: mere mortals) last Wednesday. And Jun was able to buy his tickets! (Hindi ako sasama. Not my thing.) Finally, his dream of watching an F1 race will be fulfilled! He will be going with Joel.


Before buying, he asked me pa with his usual paawa face if he can go and watch F1 with Joel. As if naman it would make a difference if I say no. Ha! In fairness to him, he told me to go with them. But I'm just not into it. I mean, if it's just one race, maybe I can tahan it. But three races? On three separate days? Nah thanks!



Jun and Joel will be seated at the Lower Bay Grandstand. At first, they got the Upper Bay seats cuz the F1 staff said that's the onlky one available. Good thing we checked the net again today and found out that there were still seats. So we were able to change our (theirs pala) tickets. Turns out that on the first day, a lot of people reserved seats then ended up not continuing with the purchase.


Today, we discovered that tripods and even monopods are not allowed. And your camera's focal length should be 200mm max. Tsk, tsk, tsk.


Jun, being an F1 fanatic that he is, will be in cloud nine during these three days of glorious bliss (for him, not for me). I'm so happy for him. He's like a kid who was given his reward for being a good boy.

Friday, February 15, 2008

missing SATC

"You men have no idea what we're dealing with down there. Teeth placement, and jaw stress, and suction, and gag reflex, and all the while bobbing up and down, moaning and trying to breathe through our noses. Easy? Honey, they don't call it a job for nothin'."


-Samantha (Sex and the City)



love-hate relationship

Kumu-quota na naman ako sa aking blogs. Can't sleep na naman. So let me tell you about my secret affair.


I have a special relationship with Sommeil. Actually, it's a love-hate relationship. I love Sommeil so much that it can get addictive. Just like anything that's addictive, most of the time it's difficult. I know Sommeil is what's best for me, but I just can't conform to the conventions of relationships of this kind. The mind wants, but the body is not willing...or sometimes, it's the other way around--the body wants, but the mind is not willing. The evenings are the worst because I know I need to go to Sommeil, but I can't bring myself to do it... and in the mornings, it's so difficult to get away from Sommeil.


And it's been like this as far as I can remember. From the summers of my teenage years until now that I'm married. I just can't change this bad habit. It doesn't help that I have a lot of friends who are having their own secret affairs with the Sommeil's of their lives.


And (if I remember correctly) the word sommeil refers to sleep or sleeping in French.


And yes, I am talking about my love-hate relationship with sleeping.


Tell me, why do we have to sleep? Why did God create us to be creatures who need sleep to enable us to refresh? Can't we just refresh our minds and our bodies by winking our eyes?


In one of those numerous sleepless nights where I have no more books to read, no more interesting sites to browse (and sometimes no "love to make" *wink*) , I tried to compute how many times an average human (meaning hindi kirat or sabog) makes. I came up with 17,280 winks a day... (hmm, if I tell Tutuy about this, he will surely doubt my computation and, in his usual Ernie-Baron-Knowledge-Power tone of voice, proceed to correct my computation). Now why can't this 17,280 winks be equivalent to the amount of sleep that we need in a day.


I better crawl into Sommeil's arms now, before any other lame ideas get into my head...


-*-*-


" ...the innocent sleep--Sleep that knits up the ravell'd sleeve of care, the death of each day's life, sore labour's bath, balm of hurt minds, great Nature's second course, chief nourisher in life's feast..."


-Macbeth, Act 2, Scene 2


 


Tuesday, February 12, 2008

spur(s) of the moment

I am officially suffering from plantar fasciitis.


...For the past months, my heels are so painful that it makes me just want to sh*t in my pants! And the worst thing is, it's getting in the way of my pagiging lakwatchera. All day long, from the moment I wake up, there is a constant pain in my every step that I just don't feel like going out anymore.


...In the past, I would look forward and actually enjoy a day of going to different places, jalan-jalan as they say here. But now, I just want to curl up on my favorite chair and spend the whole day being a couch potatie. And if ever I do make gala with friends, in less than one hour, I would be SIMANG the rest of the day because of the pain in my heel.


...I have free access to the gym in our office building but I don't want to go there because just thinking about the pain I will feel after going on the treadmill gives me migraines... On really bad days, I have to ask Tutuy to "get this, get that, do this, do that" because it's so painful for me to go around the house to do the chores (buti na lang superman tong si Tutuy! I just LOVE LOVE LOVE him!).


Oh the tragedies of My Constipated Life (shameless pluggin hehe).


I want to share this with you because heel spurs, although not life threatening, is quite common. So if you have the symptoms, or the causes match your lifestyle, then better do something to prevent it.


Plantar fasciitis, or heel spurs as some call it, cause the heel to hurt, feel hot or swell, is inflammation of the plantar fascia, a thin layer of tough tissue supporting the arch of the foot.


The plantar fascia is the ligament located at the bottom of our feet. It is attached to the heal and extends to the ball of the foot. When this ligament stretches irregularly, it tears bit by bit until it becomes inflamed.


And since I love visual aids *wink*, here's how it looks like: (thanks to Doc Noy Marasigan for sharing the medical sites with me)



It's quite common, actually. Maybe you have it too. Here are some of the symptoms:



  • You feel a sharp pain in the inside part of the bottom of your heel, which may feel like a knife sticking in the bottom of your foot MOST ESPECIALLY when you take your first few steps after waking up
  • This heel pain tends to be worse when climbing stairs or when standing on tiptoe
  • Heel pain after long periods of standing or after getting up from a seated position
  • Heel pain after, but not usually during, exercise

PF gradually develops so if you develop the symptoms, better take extra care and see what you can do about it...I knew I had it coming. After all, I almost have all it's causes:



  • Walk or stand for long periods of time (Check!-Singapore: the walking capital of the world!)
  • Overweight (Check!-leche)
  • Common in people whose jobs require a lot of standing and walkin (Check!-from One Roxas Triangle to Globe to teaching grabeh!)
  • Wear shoes that don't fit well (Check!-porma first before comfort! Since 4th year high school, my minimum heel requirement is 1.5 inches. It was only last year that I started buying flats.)
  • An athlete, especially runners (eehhh uncheck!)
  • Walk with an inward twist or roll of the foot or what they call pronation (Check!)

What's pronation? Eto yun:



So mine looks something like this right foot:



So when I had my foot scanned, it looked something like this:



As you can see, the pressure is mostly on the heel and balls of the foot.


The doctor said it can be treated. However, since mine is a bit bad na, it will take awhile for the pain to go away (awhile as in one to two years)!


I do have pain relievers and anti-inflammatory druggies but it all just brings temporary relief.


The best remedy for now is for me to wear a heel and foot support (which I haven't bought yet kasi ang mahal pala if they customise it for your feet and pang-orthotics pala talaga sha. wild!). It looks something like this:



Pde rin daw "foot taping" pero duh parang ang OA hehe


And also to apply ice packs every night (which I can't do recently cuz it's kinda cold in our place nowadays) and do certain stretching exercises like:




According to the doctor and based from the research (Ms Wikipedia etech) I've done, there are a lot of things I can do to help speed up the healing process, like



  • Always resting my feet, avoiding a lot of walking/running activities



  • Do the calf and towel stretches to help the ligament be more flexible and make the muscle that supports my arch stronger.



  • Wear well-cushioned shoes with good shock absorption (can my ballet flats and high-heeled pumps absorb shock?!?)..for example, athletic shoes (hay, i have only one pair of sports shoe and I use it 4 times a year only--the same number of times I go to the gym in a year haha)



  • Putting on shoes as soon as I get out of bed because going barefoot or wearing slippers may make the pain worse.



  • I should also get more rest (my favorite!)


    When I consulted my doctor, he mentioned about giving a certain type of steroid shot but he said it's not recommendable cuz it can make the bone brittle or weaker in the long run.

    Oh and another thing, the doctor mentioned that it's best that I lose weight to make it heal faster.




    Lose weight? Bummer!!!


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